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A Personal Reflection

January 17, 2021 by Ayşe Osmanoğlu

Thank you for all of my birthday wishes… Just some of my birthday cards…

Today is January 17th 2021. In every respect just another very normal day (if such a thing exists in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, that is!) But it also just happens to be my 50th Birthday!! How fast the years have gone… As a child I remember wishing that time would pass by quickly as I was eager to be independent, and of course because I wanted to go to bed later! But now I long for it to slow down a little, even pause sometimes, to allow me to savour precious moments for longer. And these days, I actually look forward to going to sleep early!

As I tentatively embrace this milestone birthday, I find myself reflecting on the past, considering the present and wondering about the future. How did my childhood forge me into the person that I am today? Do I feel happy, and am I making the most of every day? And do I have dreams for the future? This is a post where I simply openly share with you my personal reflections and thoughts…

THE PAST

Family Heritage

My unique family background is perhaps the single most important factor that has determined who I am. Being a member of the Imperial Ottoman family is something I am obviously incredibly proud of. It is an honour, a privilege and is deeply humbling to know that the blood of Ottoman sultans and caliphs run in my veins. Yet, at times, it has not been easy living with this legacy, and it certainly affected my childhood quite dramatically.

I was born at a time when my father, Osman Selahaddin Osmanoğlu, was still forbidden from going to Turkey. My entire family were exiled from our homeland in 1924, and not allowed to return until fifty years later in 1974. We were therefore a family living in enforced exile, who had no alternative but to make our homes abroad. Forced to assimilate into foreign cultures around the globe in order to survive. Yet, never truly belonging anywhere… Never really fitting in… And always searching for that missing part of themselves… This is how I feel… How I have always felt…

Osman Selahaddin Osmanoğlu
Prince Ali Vasib
Princess Eimine Mukbile
My Parents on their Wedding Day with my four Grandparents 27.8.66
L-R Prince Ali Vasıb, Princess Emine Mukbile, Richard Constantine Christoforides and Eugenie Elizabeth Christoforides (née Rogers-Tillstone)

I am often asked why I live in England. Well, my father was born in Alexandria, in Egypt. He came to England to further his education, and decided to settle here after falling in love and marrying my beautiful and vivacious mother, Athena Joy. She was born in England, went to school and grew up here, but is of Greek ancestry. She is quintessentially English in many ways, but she did try to learn Turkish and has always fully supported and done all she can to nurture a deep sense of pride in her children for our Ottoman heritage. This is how I came to be born in England, and why I grew up here.

Me, at 1 week old – oblivious to everything. I am sleeping in a crib, the same silk bed cover keeping me warm that was used by my paternal grandfather, Prince Ali Vasıb, when he was a baby. You can just make out his crest and part of his name embroidered in Ottoman script in silver thread. I describe a scene in my book, ‘The Gilded Cage on the Bosphorus’ where Safiru Hanımefendi, my great-grandmother, embroiders this coverlet.

To live in exile, to be displaced, to grow up in a foreign land, is hard. Very hard. I do not remember when my father first told me about my family history, or when I began to appreciate that I was a little bit ‘different’. The only Moslem girl in my schools. The only child whose name the teachers could never pronounce. So many little girls dream of being a princess, but not me.. I could not see what possible advantages there were! It seemed to me that there were only disadvantages. Children can be so cruel. And unfortunately teachers can be bullies.

As a result, I learned from a very young age what prejudice was. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self to confide in my parents about what was happening at school. At the time I did not want to worry them, and I felt a little embarrassed at my own weakness at allowing myself to feel hurt. By not speaking out I allowed the jibes, the taunting and constant nastiness that I endured at school, on account of being Moslem, Turkish and a princess, to deeply affect me. Perhaps this is the reason I find it so hard to trust people, why I value kindness, loyalty and constancy above all things, and why I am tough, maybe a little detached, and perhaps too self-reliant and independent.

Family Tragedy

A family tragedy was the other major factor that I believe forged my character. When I was nearly eight years old, my baby brother died very suddenly. Nihad Reşad was such a smiley, happy baby, but he was taken from us far too early when he was only 3 months old. He died of cot-death, or sudden infant death syndrome as it is known today.

Me with my baby brother, Nihad Reşad

Our little family was never the same again. It was as though the sun that had shone on my childhood henceforward was hidden by clouds. My parents were naturally both completely and utterly devastated. My mother changed overnight. In some ways we lost her too. At least the old her. There does not seem to be a word strong enough to describe how grief stricken she was. Seeing my parents suffer and broken into pieces by their all-consuming grief, and not knowing what to do or what to say to help them, was incredibly difficult. My brother, Orhan Murad, and I struggled to process our feelings. I remember that we slept in the same bed for weeks, just holding hands, letting our tears fall onto our pillows at night. We had so many questions, but no one to ask. We certainly did not want to upset our parents further by asking naïve questions. But we just could not comprehend what had happened – how our little, innocent brother had been totally fine the night before, and then the following morning he was gone. No goodbyes. So final.

Perhaps the biggest impact of this devastating tragedy, was watching the subsequent breakdown of my parents’ marriage. It was 1978 – there was little understanding of the need for grief and bereavement counselling. So, my parents were left to cope with their grief alone and in their own ways. And they in turn did not know how to best support each other. So they drifted apart, and finally divorced after many unhappy years. I therefore see my childhood in two parts – the before and the after. Before was sunny and happy. After was cloudy and troubled… I know that my brothers and I are a little scarred by the ‘after’ years. But I think these years forged us into the independently strong and resilient people that we are today.

THE PRESENT

Personal Life

Ayse Osmanoglu
Ayşe Osmanoğlu
This was taken in 2008 – it is my favourite picture of me with my children L-R Tarik, Ziya, Aliye, Ali, me, Cengiz

As my ‘About Ayşe‘ page says, I live in Sussex, UK and I have been happily married to my best friend Nick for over 26 years. We met at University and married soon after I completed my Masters Degree. We are blessed to have four wonderful sons and a beautiful daughter, who bring love and great joy to our lives. My eldest son, Maximilian Ali, turned 21 on Friday – his childhood gone in a flash! Cosmo Tarik is 19, Lysander Cengiz will be 18 in April, my only daughter Tatyana Aliye will be 16 in March and my baby, Ferdinand Ziya (who is sadly no longer a baby anymore) is 14.

Since I was a little girl, I always dreamed of being a mummy. I would play with my dolls for hours, imagining them to be real babies – practising for the day when I would hold my first child. I never imagined that I would be so fortunate as to be blessed with such a large family – five happy, healthy, beautiful children. They are my everything. They are my light. I need nothing more to feel complete… So, yes, I can honestly say that I am happy, and I thank Allah every day for his benevolence.

Taken this morning – as we set off for a long family walk L-R Cosmo Tarik, Ferdinand Ziya, Me, Lysander Cengiz, Tatyana Aliye and Maximilian Ali

However, the pandemic has been tough on us all – whether we have lost a loved one, whether we face financial hardship or are suffering mental anxiety. I have got through these challenging times by enjoying the simple things, and by treasuring this unexpected and very precious extra time that it has allowed me to spend with my children. Of course I desperately miss my father, who I have not been able to see since last January, as he is in Istanbul and I am here. I worry about my mother, who lives alone and has barely left her house since last March because of the virus. Rare ‘social distanced’ visits and Zoom calls are obviously not the same as being able to hug one another and be together… But my present, my now, is my children – and this is what matters most to me. Perhaps because of my past – because I am self-reliant, independent and resilient this ‘new normal’ that is our ‘present’ is actually ok. Although, I must admit that the constant snacking and trail of mess that my children leave behind does drive me a little crazy sometimes! My kitchen is never tidy!! I am sure many of you with children can relate to that!?

Not everything is positive in any of our lives, though. The restrictions of quarantine, lockdown and curfews are hard on us all. And of course I have fears and worries like everyone else, but I do try not to let them consume me. One thing that does affect me though, however hard I try to block them out, are the negative comments I occasionally receive on social media. I recently set up an Instagram and Twitter page. It has been lovely connecting to people who want to know more about members of the Ottoman family who are alive today, and I am often humbled by their expressions of love and respect which they hold towards my family. However, the few who see these pages as a forum to voice unpleasant, uninformed and offensive opinions does lead me to think that it might be best to shut down the pages. It hurts to receive nasty comments, and some really do pierce my heart.

There are two comments I find particularly hurtful. These same two comments are sent to me all the time. They probably hurt the most because a small voice inside my head agrees with them. “You dishonour your ancestors by not speaking Turkish fluently. It is shameful.” And the second is “You do not look Turkish. You and your children look foreign. How can you be Ottoman?”

Well, unfortunately no one taught me Turkish as a child, and I grew up in a small village in England. My own country had exiled my grandparents and had turned its back on my family. People forget this. However, when I finished university I did try to learn Turkish and took a language course in London. I learned a little but not enough. For a number of reasons travelling to Turkey was not easy, until I was finally granted Turkish citizenship in 2008. By this time I was married and was a mother to five young children. I simply had no time to do anything, let alone improve my Turkish language. It is without doubt the biggest regret of my life – that I do not speak fluent Turkish. I wish my father or grandparents had taught me when I was young, but sadly they didn’t. However, my soul is unequivocally Turkish, so I pray that my ancestors are not ashamed of me. As to how I look, and how my children look. Well, Allah Himself created us all, and only He determines the colour of our eyes, the shape of our nose, the shade of our skin… So, I make no excuse for how we look. Our blood, our DNA, is Turkish. It is Ottoman. I need say no more. I need make no further explanation. Yet the criticism still hurts. I am clearly not as tough or strong as I like to think!

Professional Life

It has been a very busy few months for me. For years I ran a property development and investment company with my husband. Then about 10 years ago, I took a huge step back from work and retired. I poured everything in to making our home and our children as happy as possible.

And then, a few years ago I started doing something for me. I started doing the research for my first book, ‘The Gilded Cage on the Bosphorus’. It had always been my dream – to write an historical fiction book on the Muradiye branch of the Ottoman family. And finally, I was actually doing it and it was thrilling! In May 2020, on the anniversary of Sultan Murad V’s accession to the throne, I published the ebook. On my father’s 80th birthday in July 2020 I published the paperback edition of the book. And I am now working on the Turkish translation, which I hope to launch on 13th October 2021 – on my grandfather’s birthday. The story begins with my grandfather’s birth, so it seemed like the most appropriate date.

It feels wonderful to be able to say that I am an author. I have published a book. A book about my family, for my family, and in honour of my family. The book I always dreamed of writing. I have never felt more satisfied. More fulfilled… And I am grateful to everyone who helped me in this journey that led to my dream becoming a reality.

THE FUTURE

As I embrace this milestone birthday, slightly wary of what lies ahead of me in this new decade, I am conscious of wrinkles appearing on my face, of my hair turning grey and I admit that I weigh far more than I should! But I am content, and even excited about the future. Strangely I do not feel too anxious about it…

I have begun the research for the sequel to ‘The Gilded Cage on the Bosphorus’. This book will follow the Muradiye branch of the Ottoman family between the turbulent years of 1906-1909. I do not have a working title yet – nothing I have come up with seems quite right. Although ‘The Changing Currents of the Bosphorus’ is a possible option… If you have any suggestions please do share them with me – your help would be greatly appreciated! For those of you who have studied Ottoman history, you will know that this volatile period saw a coup, a counter coup, the deposition and exile of Sultan Abdülhamid, and the introduction of constitutional monarchy to the Empire under Sultan Mehmed Reşad. For the family of Sultan Murad V, held for so long in confinement at the Çırağan Palace, they were finally set free.

I have many plans. The restrictions that we have all been living under during the COVID-19 pandemic has shown me that I should not to put off till tomorrow what I could do today. Life truly is a gift. One that should not be wasted. And time is so very very precious. So, my husband and I hope to travel much more – we live in such a beautiful world… One day I would love to see the lavender fields of Provence in full bloom, and the cherry trees blossom in Japan. I want to visit Petra, Cordóba, and of course Jerusalem. I certainly plan to spend more time in İstanbul and at my home in Bodrum. My girlfriends and I will go to all those art and fashion exhibitions and visit the historic houses and places that we have talked about going to for so long! And who knows, maybe I will be blessed with grandchildren in the not too distant future!! İnşallah.

There is much to look forward to…

TO END….

Fifty isn’t so bad! After all, it is a blessing to have reached this age – many are not so lucky… My little brother for one… So, I am content, and grateful beyond words for all that life has given me and promises to give me in the future. My past made me who I am. It gave me the armour and handed me the shield which has enabled me to face the battle that is life. With all its victories and defeats – its highs and its lows. I have been blessed with loving parents, wonderful family and loyal friends. I have an amazing husband and five beautiful children. And I have my writing… I have so much…

The birthday card from my children – they are my greatest love, my greatest pride and the greatest accomplishment of my life

As I write this, I feel ready for the next chapter in my life. I accept my past and fully accept my fate. I may not really fit in anywhere; I may be a little different. But, that’s ok, after all we are all different aren’t we?! We are all unique. It has just taken me fifty years to realise this…!!

So, if I was to speak to my younger self, I would say try to accept your past – for this will allow you to be content with your present and be excited for your future.

I pray you and your families keep safe and well.

 

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The Holy Month of Ramazan, in 2020 …

April 24, 2020 by Ayşe Osmanoğlu

Ramazanınız Mübarek Olsun

I wish all of you who are fellow Moslems a peaceful, blessed and holy month of Ramazan.

The Kaaba
Mecca
Empty and deserted
The Holy Kaaba : Empty and Deserted

When I first saw this image of the deserted courtyard of the Great Mosque in Mecca, something inside me felt deeply unsettled. Somehow, it made the global crisis we are all living through even more real to me. Covid-19 respects no boundaries, sees no borders and knows no religious, ethnic, cultural, social or political distinctions. It is indiscriminate and ruthless and has infiltrated all our lives in one way or another.

A Very Different Ramazan …

I know that the month of Ramazan is a time when we, as Moslems, come together as one community. Where we pray together, embrace one another, invite each other into our homes to break our fast, and where we as a community offer food and support to those most in need. But instead, due to the current global crisis, most countries have had to temporarily close our mosques and ban congregational prayers. We are forbidden to invite our family, our friends and our neighbours into our homes for iftar, and large iftar banquets organised for the poor can no longer take place.

Keep Faith and Remain Patient

But Ramazan is essentially a time for spiritual reflection, introspection and feeling a closeness with Allah. And this is something that Covid-19 is powerless to stop.

Osman Selahaddin Efendi
Reading Quran
My father, Osman Selahaddin Efendi, reading his Quran at home during Ramazan

We will pray in our homes instead of at the mosques. We will pray with our immediate family, or whoever we are isolating with, instead of with a wider congregation. And we will listen to our imams delivering sermons, reciting the Quran and we will still follow them in prayer through one of the many live-streaming methods that are available. We will have iftar only with people living in the same households as us, but we will virtually connect with our family, friends and neighbours perhaps using Google Hang-Out, Zoom, House Party or FaceTime so we can still feel the warmth of coming together with our loved ones. Even a telephone call can make us feel connected with one another. And we will most certainly still help those less fortunate than ourselves by displays of generosity and compassion. Perhaps we will make a donation online to one of the many deserving charities, or we will send parcels of food (adhering to all the physical distancing and hygiene regulations).

Follow the Restrictions and Guidelines

I do not know of another time in history when Moslems were forbidden from gathering during Ramazan. Wars, natural disasters, and outbreaks of plague and disease have never before forced such drastic measures as are needed now. Therefore, in a way, we are living through history.

I am reminded of something the Prophet Muhammed, peace be upon him, once said: “If you hear of an outbreak of plague in a land, do not enter it, but if the plague breaks out in a place while you are in it, do not leave that place.” This hadith is just as relevant today, as it was when these words were first spoken. And is a reminder to us all that we must continue to listen to our governments and adhere to their quarantine regulations, their lockdown guidelines and their strict curfews. Not just now, during Ramazan, but until things change.

These rules have been put in place to keep us and others safe and well. We must maintain social distancing for as long as is necessary in order to save lives, protect the vulnerable and support all our brave doctors and nurses battling to look after the sick. And we must continue to be patient, and wait for all this to pass.

So, I know that this Ramazan will be different. And I know that many people will be feeling particularly alone, lonely and abandoned during the holy month. But remember that you can never truly be alone. Allah is always with us. I hope this brings you some form of comfort, especially at this time. Of course times are difficult, and we all face challenges we have not faced before, but if we help each other and keep faith then we will overcome our fears and survive these uncertain times.

Hope For the Future

And these times will most certainly pass. Quarantine will end. Lockdown and curfews will be lifted. Scientists in almost every country are working hard to find a cure and to produce a vaccine for Covid-19, to ensure that our lives can return to normal. That cure will be found. That vaccine will be produced. And we will be reunited with our family and friends once more.

We must all just keep faith, remain patient and trust in Him …

Hayırlı Ramazanlar

Bu zor zamanlarda Allah’a tevekkülünüz ve sabırınızın size gönül ferahlığı vermesini temenni ederim …

I pray that during the holy month your faith in Allah will deepen, your patience will grow and together they will bring you comfort …

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The Covid 19 Pandemic: COVID-19 PANDEMİSİ

April 17, 2020 by Ayşe Osmanoğlu

“In memory of Hadice Firdevs Gülnev Hanımefendi – wife of Prince Ömer Hilmi Efendi, the youngest son of Sultan Mehmed Reşad, and mother to my grandmother Princess Emine Mukbile. Taken too soon from her two young children by the Spanish Flu in December 1919 … But not forgotten … May her soul rest in peace …”

“Hadice Firdevs Gülnev Hanımefendi’nin aziz hatırasına… Sultan Mehmed Reşad’ın en küçük oğlu Şehzade Ömer Hilmi Efendi’nin eşi ve babaannem Emine Mukbile Sultan’ın annesi. Geride küçük yaştaki oğlu ve kızını bırakarak 31 Aralık 1919’da İspanyol gribinden 29 yaşında vefat etti. Onu unutmadık. Ruhu şad olsun.”

Hadice Firdevs Gülnev Hanımefendi - wife of Prince Ömer Hilmi Efendi, the youngest son of Sultan Mehmed Reşad, and mother to my grandmother Princess Emine Mukbile.
The Lady Hadice Firdevs Gülnev Hanımefendi
Hadice Firdevs Gülnev Hanımefendi (1890-1919)

Self Isolation … Evde İzolasyon…

Our cat - Dino
Dino

On 23rd March, as a precaution against the Covid 19 pandemic, the UK (which is where I live) went into lockdown. I have been self-isolating ever since at my home in West Sussex with my husband, my five children and with our two cats.

COVID-19 pandemisine karşı bir tedbir olarak 23 Mart’ta, yaşadığım ülke İngiltere’de evde izolasyon uygulaması başlatıldı. O zamandan beri Batı Sussex’teki evimde eşim, beş çocuğumuz ve iki kedimizle birlikte kendimizi dış dünyadan tecrit etmiş durumdayız.

Cat - Enzo
and his brother Enzo
ve kardeşi Enzo

Yesterday, the British Government announced that the Coronavirus lockdown in the UK will be extended by at least another three weeks. I know that similar measures are being enforced in Turkey and across the world. Of course we must all accept the need for these stringent restrictions in order to keep the vulnerable and the elderly safe during these unprecedented and frightening times.

Dün İngiliz Hükümeti koronavirüse karşı evde izolasyon uygulamasının en az üç hafta daha uzatıldığını duyurdu. Benzer önlemlerin dünyada pek çok ülkede olduğu gibi Türkiye’de de alındığını biliyorum. Elbette bu görülmemiş ve korkutucu zamanlarda zayıf bünyelileri ve yaşlıları güvende tutmak için bu bağlayıcı kısıtlamalara olan ihtiyacı kabul etmeliyiz.

An Inevitable Comparison Perhaps … Benim İçin Zorunlu Bir Karşılaştırma…

This latest announcement got me thinking … It has been nearly 28 days since our lockdown began. How on earth did Murad V and his family endure nearly 28 years of enforced isolation?

Bu son duyurudan sonra aklıma hemen şu geldi: Evde izolasyonun başlamasından bu yana 28 güne yakın bir zaman geçti. Sultan V. Murad ve ailesi yaklaşık 28 yıllık zorunlu ikamete nasıl katlandılar?

How did they survive? And how did they stay sane? The answer is that they found strength in their faith and in each other. Their prayers and the words of the Quran brought light to their souls, hope to their hearts, taught them patience and selflessness and reminded them that they were not alone. As a family unit they were incredibly close, and gave each other all the love, reassurance and comfort that they needed. They also found solace in the more simple things in life such as music, books, games and writing. No doubt their mental, emotional and physical well-being were affected, but they all learned to accept their fate and be grateful for what they had rather than focus on what they didn’t.

Nasıl hayatta kaldılar? Ve akıl sağlıklarını nasıl korudular? Cevap, bu dayanma gücünü inançlarında ve birbirlerinde bulmalarıdır. Namaz ve duaları ile Kur’an’ın ayetleri ruhlarına ışık getirdi, yüreklerine umut verdi, onlara sabrı ve bencil olmamayı öğretti ve onlara yalnız olmadıklarını hatırlattı. Bütün bir aile olarak inanılmaz derecede yakındılar ve birbirlerine ihtiyaç duydukları tüm sevgi, güven ve rahatlığı verdiler. Ayrıca müzik, kitaplar, oyunlar ve yazı yazma gibi hayattaki daha basit şeylerde teselli buldular. Şüphesiz zihinsel, duygusal ve fiziksel refahları etkilendi, ancak hepsi kaderlerini kabul etmeyi ve yapmadıkları şeye odaklanmak yerine sahip olduklarına şükretmeyi öğrendiler.

My Inspiration … İlhamım…

I have always felt deeply moved by the pain and suffering inflicted upon Murad V, and on his children and grandchildren during their long confinement. The monotony and the frustration of their lives must have been unimaginably difficult to bear. While I find myself empathising even more with their tragic story as I adjust to life under the new restrictions we all face, the grace and dignity shown by my forebears during their time of isolation has become a source of inspiration to me. This in turn has given me an inner strength to cope with the trials of today. So, instead of feeling anxious and frustrated by the current situation, I am trying to accept it for what it is while feeling thankful for the unexpected and precious time it has given me with my children.

Sultan V. Murad ile çocukları ve torunlarının uzun süren hapis hayatları sırasında çektikleri acı ve ıstıraptan her zaman derinden etkilendiğimi hissettim. Hayatlarındaki monotonluk ve hayal kırıklığına katlanmak, hayal edilemeyecek kadar zor olmalıydı. Hepimizin karşı karşıya kaldığı yeni kısıtlamalar altında yeni hayat tarzımıza uyum sağlamaya çalıştığımız şu günlerde, kendimi onların trajik hikâyesiyle daha fazla empati kurarken bulmamın yanı sıra, kendi tecritleri sırasında atalarımın gösterdiği saygın ve onurlu tutum ayrıca bana ilham kaynağı oldu. Bu da bana, bugün çektiğimiz zorluklarla başa çıkmak için manevi bir güç verdi. Bu nedenle, mevcut durumdan huzursuz olmak ve endişelenmek yerine, çocuklarımla bana verdiği beklenmedik ve değerli zaman için mutlu olmaya ve onu olduğu gibi kabul etmeye çalışıyorum.

Try to Stay Connected … İletişim Hâlinde Olmaya Çalışın…

Prince Ali, Prince Tarik, Prince Ziya, Princess Aliye, Prince Cengiz
My Children: from L-R Ali, Tarik, Ziya, Aliye and Gengiz
Çocuklarım: Soldan sağa Ali, Tarık, Ziya, Aliye ve Cengiz

I think that it is so important to try to stay connected with family and friends during this difficult time. Unlike Murad V and his family, we have mobile phones, laptops and access to social media. We can use Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat to send each other messages. Or we can set up a virtual meeting, gathering or even a party using Zoom, WhatsApp, House Party or Google-Hang-Out. Why not reach out to one of your friends or family members you haven’t spoken to for a while as soon as you have finished reading this blog? You will make someone you care about very happy if you do … It will make you feel happy too …

Bu zor dönemde aileniz ve arkadaşlarınızla iletişim hâlinde olmaya çalışmanın çok önemli olduğunu düşünüyorum. Sultan V. Murad ve ailesinin aksine cep telefonlarımız, dizüstü bilgisayarlarımız ve sosyal medyaya erişimimiz var. Birbirimize mesaj göndermek için Facebook, Instagram veya Snapchat kullanabiliriz. Zoom, WhatsApp, House Party veya Google-Hang-Out kullanarak sanal toplantılar, konferans görüşmeleri, hatta bir parti bile tertipleyebiliriz. Mesela bu yazımı okuduktan hemen sonra, bir süredir görüşemediğiniz arkadaşlarınızdan veya aile üyelerinizden biriyle bir şekilde neden iletişime geçmeyesiniz? Bunu yaparsanız önem verdiğiniz birini çok mutlu edeceksiniz… Böylece siz de mutlu olacaksınız…

Last night I organised a family Kahoot Quiz over Zoom, which was great fun! It was so lovely to see my brothers and their families, my cousin Mahmud, and especially my parents. It was almost like we were together, even if it was only over the internet! Hearing each other laugh and seeing one another smile was very special to us all. I am still rather shocked that my father, who is nearly 80 years old, managed to work out the technical stuff and joined us from his konak in Beylerbey in Istanbul!

Geçen gece Zoom üzerinde aile arasında bir Kahoot Quiz düzenledim. Ne kadar eğlenceliydi bir bilseniz! Ayrı şehirlerde hatta ülkelerde yaşayan kardeşlerimi ve ailelerini, kuzenim Şehzade Mahmud Efendi’yi ve özellikle anne ve babamı görmek çok güzeldi. Sadece internet üzerinden olsa bile neredeyse birlikteydik! Kahkahalarımızı işitmek ve birbirimize gülümsemelerimizi görmek hepimiz için çok özeldi. Neredeyse 80 yaşında olan babamın, bu denli teknik işleri başarması ve İstanbul Beylerbeyi’ndeki evinden bize katılması karşısında şok olduğumu da söylemeliyim!

Try to Stay Busy and Positive … Kendinize Bir Meşguliyet Bulun ve İyimser Olun…

Princess Tatyana Aliye
Aliye, learning to play a Coldplay piece on the piano
Aliye piyanoda bir Coldplay parçasını çalmayı öğreniyor…

I also believe that it is really important to try to stay busy and positive while you are stuck at home. With all this extra time on their hands, I have encouraged my children to try something new and maintain a semblance of routine and self-discipline. My daughter is teaching herself to play the piano, while my youngest son has written a short story about vikings! My elder three sons are more of a challenge! They have experimented with cutting each others hair with varying degrees of success! But getting them to do anything more productive is not easy! What they really miss is playing competitive sport and watching sport both live and on TV. Like everybody else, they have had to adapt. The daily football matches in the garden have now become almost as competitive as their school fixtures, and watching re-runs of Chelsea highlights has replaced going to Stamford Bridge and watching ‘Match of the Day’!

Ayrıca evde sıkışıp kalınan böyle zamanlarda insanın kendine bir meşguliyet bulmasının ve iyimser olmasının gerçekten önemli olduğuna inanıyorum. Ellerindeki bu ekstra zaman diliminde, çocuklarımı yeni bir şey denemeye ve hayatın rutin akışını ve özgüvenlerini korumaya teşvik ettim. En küçük oğlum Vikingler hakkında kısa bir hikâye yazarken kızım kendi kendine piyano çalmayı öğreniyor! Diğer üç oğlum ise çok daha zor işlere soyundular! Farklı derecelerde başarı ile birbirlerinin saçlarını kesmeyi denediler! Ancak daha verimli bir şey yapmalarını sağlamak kolay değil! Gerçekten özledikleri, rakiplerle oynanan sporları yapmak ve spor karşılaşmalarını yerinde veya TV’de izlemek. Ne yapalım ki diğer herkes gibi onlar da uyum sağlamak zorundalar. Bahçedeki günlük futbol maçları artık okul takımlarınınkiler kadar heyecanlı hâle geldi ve önemli Chelsea maçlarının tekrarlarını izlemek, takımın stadı Stamford Bridge’e giderek “Günün Maçı”nı izlemenin yerini aldı!

As for me – I have finally finished editing my book and I am now working with a book cover designer to create a fabulous, eye-catching cover. I hope that the book will be ready to print as soon as the printers reopen! In between all the cooking, cleaning and tidying up after five children, I have even had time to start writing the first two chapters of a potential sequel!

Bana gelince, atalarımın Çırağan Sarayı’ndaki 28 yıllık hapis hayatını konu alan kitabımı nihayet son hâline getirdim ve şimdi enfes ve göz alıcı bir kapak için bir kitap kapağı tasarımcısıyla çalışıyorum. Umarım matbaalar yeniden açılana kadar kitap da basılmaya hazır olur! Bütün yemek, temizlik ve beş çocuğun arkasını toplama işlerimin arasında, kitabımın devamı niteliğinde olacak ikinci kitabın ilk iki bölümünü yazmaya başladım bile!

But it is the simple things in life that we are returning to as a family. Just as my ancestors did during their confinement at the Çırağan Palace. You may like to try it too. Board games, puzzles, colouring, baking, and lots of games in the garden … Perhaps self-isolating, although incredibly hard to do, is an opportunity for us all to slow down. Our lives are usually so busy and we generally have little time to pause and reflect on what is truly important. For me, what is truly important is time with my children. So I will hug them tighter and for longer while I can …

Aileme dönecek olursak yaptıklarımız aslında basit şeyler. Atalarımın Çırağan Sarayı’nda hapsedildiklerinde yaptıkları gibi. Bunları siz de denemek isteyebilirsiniz. Masa oyunları, yap-bozlar, boyama ve bahçede oynanacak birçok oyun… Kendini evde izole etmek son derece zor olsa da belki de hepimiz için yavaşlama fırsatı. Hayatlarımız genelde çok yoğundur ve sahiden önemli olan üzerinde durup düşünmek için genellikle çok az zamanımız vardır. Benim için sahiden önemli olan, çocuklarımla vakit geçirmek. Bu yüzden elime fırsat geçmişken onları daha sıkı ve daha uzun süre kucaklayacağım…

Stay at Home : Evde Kalın!

Evinde Kal
Stay at Home

My admiration, respect and most heartfelt and sincere thanks go to all the amazing frontline workers – to the doctors, nurses, and to all the ancillary staff in hospitals and care homes, who are battling so hard to defeat the Covid 19 virus. The work they do is extraordinary. The care, attention and compassion with which they treat their patients is truly remarkable. And all they ask in return is that we stay at home … A small request, even though in practice it is not an easy one.

Hayranlığım, saygım ve en içten, samimi teşekkürlerim, bütün o cephede görevli, muhteşem çalışanlara, hastaneler ve sağlık merkezlerinde, COVID-19 virüsünü yenmek için son derece zorlu bir mücadele veren doktorlara, hemşirelere ve tüm yardımcı personele… Yaptıkları iş olağanüstü. Hastalarına gösterdikleri özen, dikkat ve şefkat gerçekten takdire şayan. Ve bizden tek istedikleri ise evde kalmamız… Her ne kadar uygulamada çok kolay olmasa da küçük bir istek.

Life under lockdown is stressful, and it can be overwhelming. Many have lost loved ones. I send my deepest sympathy to anyone who has gone through the trauma of losing someone they love to this indiscriminate and ruthless virus. The statistics are truly terrifying. Others feel lonely and frightened, and need the compassion and help of their local communities now more than ever before. Children are struggling with what social distancing means to them. They are desperate to see their friends, and miss the structure and routine of school. (Even though most won’t admit it!) We all worry about our elderly relatives but, out of love for them, we keep our distance from them. And, for many people, the financial impact of the crisis has been crippling bringing its own sense of loss.

Evde izole bir yaşam streslidir ve bunaltıcı olabilir. Pek çok kişi sevdiklerini kaybetti. Bu ayrım gözetmeyen ve acımasız virüs sebebiyle sevdikleri birini kaybetmenin acısını yaşayan herkese en içten taziyelerimi yolluyorum. İstatistikler gerçekten korkutucu. Diğerleri kendilerini yalnız ve korkmuş hissederler ve çevre halkının şefkat ve yardımına her zamankinden daha fazla ihtiyaç duyarlar. Çocuklar, sosyal mesafenin kendileri için ne anlama geldiğinin mücadelesini veriyorlar. Arkadaşlarını göremedikleri için mutsuzlar, okullarını ve derslerini özlüyorlar. Hepimiz yaşlı -çoğu yaşlılığı kabul etmese de- akrabalarımız için endişeleniyoruz, ancak onlara olan sevgimiz dışında, aramızdaki mesafeyi koruyoruz. Ve pandeminin finansal etkisi… İşlerini kaybeden veya çalışamayan birçok insanı, krizden nasıl kurtulacakları, ailelerini nasıl geçindirecekleri ve kiralarını nasıl ödeyecekleri konusunda endişeye sevk ediyor.

Stay Safe … Güvende Kal…

We all took so much for granted before. Don’t you think? Once this is over, I for one will certainly appreciate everything so much more. And you must rest assured that it will be over. Maybe not next month, maybe not even next year, but it will be over one day. And hopefully, with courage and resolve, we will emerge from this whole experience stronger, kinder and with more respect for each other and for the world around us than we had before.

Daha önce hepimiz, sunulan her nimetten bol bol faydalandık. Sizce de öyle değil mi? Bu salgın geçtikten sonra ben, kesinlikle her şeyin kıymetini çok daha fazla bileceğim. Ve bu belanın sona ereceğinden de emin olmalısınız. Belki gelecek ay değil, belki gelecek yıl bile değil, ama bir gün mutlaka bitecek. Ve inşallah bütün bu salgın deneyiminden cesaret ve kararlılıkla, daha önce olduğundan daha güçlü, daha müşfik, birbirimize ve bütün dünyaya daha fazla saygı gösteren bireyler olarak çıkacağız.

Until that day, I pray that you and your families keep healthy and well.

O güne kadar, siz ve ailenizin sağlıklı ve iyi kalması için dua ediyorum.

Thank you to my friend, Ibrahim Pazan, for so kindly offering to translate this article for me and for allowing me to share his translation on this page.


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To publish, or not to publish, that is the question…

October 26, 2019 by Ayşe Osmanoğlu

Coat of arms of the Imperial Ottoman Family / Imperial Ottoman Dynasty

The Gilded Cage on the Bosphorus

The Ottomans : The Story of a Family

My children are astounded, and quite frankly I have to admit that am I too!

I never imagined that I would be capable of building a web page. Let alone consider embarking upon the challenge of setting up a personal blog! If I can get to this stage, then really anyone can! The invaluable video tutorial that I watched on youtube, to guide me through the many intricate steps, said that it would take half an hour. This turned out to be ever so slightly optimistic! It was five hours before I pressed the ‘publish’ button, but at least I finally got there!

So here I am, cautiously and warily dipping my toes in the hitherto unchartered waters of modern day technology and social media, writing my first ever blog post!

So what has driven me to take such a giant leap?

I am so far out of my comfort zone! The simple fact is that I have written a book, based on the Imperial Ottoman family. Its working title is: ‘The Gilded Cage on the Bosphorus’. It is an historical account of the tragic story of Sultan Murad V and his descendants. Murad V ruled the Ottoman Empire in 1876 before being deposed by his younger brother, Sultan Abdülhamid. He was then held in enforced confinement in the Çırağan Palace, together with his family, for 28 years. The story begins in October 1903, with the birth of my grandfather, Prince Ali Vâsıb, and ends in December 1905 . It is a tale of a family – their joys and sorrows, their secret hopes and fears and their private trials and tribulations as they struggle to adapt to a world that is rapidly changing around them. 

Çırağan Palace – home to Sultan Murad V and his family

Çırağan Palace history, Imperial Ottoman Dynasty, Sultan Murad V
Çırağan Palace, 1870, Abdullah Frères. Gelatin silver print, 43 x 52.5 cm. Pierre de Gigord Collection of Photographs of the Ottoman Empire and the Republic of Turkey. The Getty Research Institute, 96.R.14

I feel honoured to be a member of the Ottoman family and was inspired by a desire to keep my ancestors’ memory alive. I also wanted to light a spark of interest and pride in their Ottoman heritage within the hearts of my children. Initially I intended the book to be read only by my children and members of my extended family. However, it has since been suggested that I should publish the story so that the intimate lives of those who lived in the long forgotten world of the Imperial Ottoman Court, during the twilight years of the Ottoman Empire, can be rediscovered.

Hence the blog… Its aim is to help me decide… To publish, or not to publish, that is the question…

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